She doesn’t need you to tell her you love her a million times, she needs to see it, when she’s feeling down she wants you to be there for her, when she needs someone to talk to she just wants you to listen to her and help her with her problems, she needs to know that you aren’t going to judge her and instead try to understand her, you know? Understand, Sometimes she may not show that she needs help, but that’s because she doesn’t want to seem weak, so pay attention to how she feels, once and awhile stop to ask her if she’s okay? Be the one that she can turn to when she feels like her world is falling apart guys.
When I’m with you, I am committed to our relationship <3
Being committed to me means putting in the necessary amount of effort that a relationship needs to survive on, It means being there for you when you need me to be and being the best that I can be for you because I know that’s what you deserve, I would do whatever it may take to make sure that you’re happy because I don’t want to see you hurt. It means not giving up when things don’t go as we planned to them to be, but instead talking things out and realizing how much our relationship is worth to each other. No matter what I won’t let you slip away, I’ll try my best to show you that you are worth it by making the effort to show you that I really and genuinely do care about you, to show you that you’re loved and that you are truly someone special to me. Put your trust in me and I’ll prove to you that it was all “Worth It” in the end because you will be all that I need and want.
She’s tired of finding love only to have it slip away weeks or months later, she’s tired of being the option to a guy who she’s done nothing but give her all to, she’s tired of being the girl who ends up hurt and alone as soon as he finds someone prettier or better then her.. she’s tired of trying when in the end all it got her was heartache and tears, sometimes she wonders if she’s better off alone, then again she wants to feel loved, she wants to feel important to someone, she wants to feel the real happiness behind finding someone who truly and honestly loves her as much as she loves him. She just wants to be the one that’s ” Worth It”
She just wants to be loved.
I think every girl just wants to be loved by the guy she entrusted her heart to, she wants to know that he cares enough to fight for her love, rather then walk away when he can’t handle it anymore, she wants to be assured that the effort she puts in to loving him won’t go in vain, that he will in return put the same amount of effort into the relationship. She wants to know that she’s “Worth it” because to him she means the world. She wants to know that her heart will be taken care of because in the past it’s been tossed and broken many times over, she knows very well what it feels like to lose someone who she gave her all to, but for you she’s willing to take the risk because to her you’re simply worth it, you make her happy. So she slowly, but surely opens her heart to you in hopes that you’re different, that you will take care of her fragile heart and treat her like she is someone who is truly special to you, you know? So, don’t take her for granted and prove to her that what you feel is genuine love for her.
Guys and girls don’t always communicate the same way. Learn to listen to your girl’s point of view and think from her perspective before jumping to conclusions. The most successful of relationships are the ones where both partners learn to look at things from each other’s perspectives all the time.
She’s looking for something real, not perfect ..
To be honest she knows that relationships have their ups and Downs, she understands that two people won’t always agree with one another, more importantly she knows what a relationship takes to work, therefore she’s going to put in effort to let you know that she cares so she would like it if you did the same for her. She wants to know she’s worth it to you, that even through the arguments you won’t just give up on her and walk away. Appreciate the things she does for you, love her for who she is instead of trying to change her & you can tell her you love her, but you also have to show her guys. Let her know what you feel is real and not something that’s only temporary.
She started to trust less, her walls began to come up, that perception of “Love” for her started to change, she associated love with pain because that’s what always happened to her in the end. It’s hard for her to open up to a guy because it makes her seem vulnerable and she hates that because she doesn’t want to be put in that position where she’s going to get hurt again. To be honest she’s just tired of being let down over and over again, tired of being replaced when he found someone better then her, tired of becoming the option & with each heartbreak adding on to that pain, it just makes it harder and harder for her to fall again, it makes it hard for her to associate love with actual “Happiness”….
She is the way she is and you have to lover her for that, Even the littlest things you say may really hurt her even when she may not show it because every girl has some insecurity. Let her know she is beautiful and compliment her because it never hurts to compliment her you know? Let her know you care because every girl is perfect in their own special way. Love her for her flaws because that’s what makes her unique, Don’t try to change her into somebody she is not, Just let her be who she is and accept her for that.
That girl that knew she wasn’t perfect, but tried to be for you. That girl who wanted nothing more then to be there for you, and loving you was the only way she could. The girl who see’s your flaws, but values them as much as your strengths. That girl who can’t bring herself to hate you, even though you probably deserve it. The girl that should have you, but doesn’t because you hurt her & pushed her away..
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Thing is she’s been hurt so many times. She is scared that if she opens up her heart to another guy then the same thing will happen, she’s afraid that she is just going to be taken advantage of again. She is afraid that you will get bored of her or find someone better, then leave her hurt like she was before. She wants you to put in as much effort as she is putting into the relationship and she wants you to assure her that you will stay when things go bad, instead of leaving and giving up on her. She wants to know that you care enough about her to put up with her, even when she may get mad or when she is sad, you know? She wants to be the reason you smile everyday. All she really is asking for is to be loved and for you to take care of her heart.
I want to be the reason why <3
I want to be that guy who opens up her heart and proves to her that what I feel is real, I want to show her that not all relationships end in heartbreaks and that she can trust again, although it may take time I’m willing to wait, I’m willing to try because she is worth it to me, she make me happy and that’s all I can really ask for. I’ll show her how much she means to me and I’ll fight for her instead of giving up on her. I know you may not be perfect and it’s okay, as long as you try, I’m trying too. We aren’t perfect, but we’ll work at making this relationship work together, one step at a time. So let’s just take our time and enjoy the moments we get to be together. Let me be the reason you smile, I promise you I’ll try my best to.
She remembers the first time you both met, she remembers how it all started, how perfect it all was at first, when the feelings were mutual, those times where you actually tried to show her how special she was, those days she actually felt loved .. now it’s all changed, not for the better but for the worst. She feels as if you two are slowly drifting apart, talking has turned into you barely saying anything to her, the affection you used to show her is nonexistent, the effort isn’t mutual anymore, she doesn’t want to lose you but right now she doesn’t know what to do, she’s hurt because the one person who’s suppose to care and be there for her is slowly starting to fade away…