June 2012
Her Emotions →
trungphan:
There are days where she lays in bed at night thinking, trying to not let the emotions consume her, she can’t quite put them into words, but she can finally feel this pain getting to her like a knife being pushed deeper and deeper into an already open wound. Around her peers and family she keeps a smile, but little do they know that it’s simply a mirage, it is what she chooses to show...
I think all a girl really wants is to find someone...
Someone who’s willing to put in the time and efforts to get to know her, someone who can see beyond what she looks like and instead see her for who she is as an individual, someone who will listen without casting judgement because they are willing to take the time to listen and understand her past and her present, to see what she has been through and to try to understand why she does certain...
"Why are you single?" →
trungphan:
This is the most frequent question people tend to ask me. Well, the thing with me is when I fall in “Love” I give it my all, I give that person my time and my effort, but most of all I give them a piece of me I know that they can break (My heart). I want to be able to have a long lasting relationship with them, I want to be able to learn things about them for months or years to come,...
One day.. →
trungphan:
She will get tired of waiting, tired of chasing you and putting effort into someone who won’t do the same. By the time you realize how much you wanted her, it will be too late because she got tired of your games and decided to move on to someone who will put in the effort and time to show her that they care, to show her that she is someone truly special, someone to show her that she...
She's Tired, →
trungphan:
She’s tired of guys messing with her emotions, she’s tired of opening up and getting hurt time and times again. She just wants someone to lover her for who she is, she wants someone to be there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on when she’s feeling down, she wants a guy who will put up with her mood swings because sure she may get mad or sad, truthfully she just wants to know...
May 2012
Honestly, I don't really think girls are as... →
trungphan:
I think all a girl really asks for is for you to accept her the way she is, to you she will always be beautiful with or without make-up on, she wants you to be there for her when she needs you the most, she wants to feel your warm embracing hugs when it feels like her world is falling apart, she wants you to be able to respect her decisions and support her with whatever she may pursue...
"Standards" for girls →
trungphan:
We often set these “Standards” on girls, society tells them that “Beautiful”is “Big boobs, Big butts, Tons of make-up, Ect.”, What ever happened to“Personality” being beautiful, after all isn’t that what keeps you attracted to someone? I mean some of you might disagree with me, go ahead because you’re entitled to your opinion. But, in my opinion you should love her for who is on the...
She loved you ... →
trungphan:
But you never realized that until it was too late, the words you told her were just lies, you took her for granted and took advantage of her heart, now she’s hurt, she wonders how you could treat her the way you did when all she did was love you? She questions everything you say because all you did was lie to her, you abused her trust and now it’s gone… Your Apologies mean nothing to...
There are two sides to every girl. →
trungphan:
So in order to fully understand her you must see both sides, sometimes you will see the part of her that’s happy, the side that puts on a smile, but ask yourself is it really a genuine smile? Or Is it merely for show? That’s why you must take the time to understand the other half of her, the side that’s hurting, the part of her that only a trusted few have seen, the part of her that...
It's hard for her to trust. →
trungphan:
She has talked to guys who have played with her emotions and lead her on, she’s trusted only to have them go and abuse the trust that she gave them, she’s opened up and gotten close to a guy only to have him get bored and leave when he felt like it, to him she was merely an option and it hurt her because she had invested so much time and effort into getting to know this guy, she...
Just take the time and listen to what she has to... →
trungphan:
Sometimes she just wants you to listen to her, so you can hear her thoughts and learn why she is the way she. She wants you to pay attention to her mind and what she thinks, rather then to how she looks so she can know that you genuinely care about her, so that you see her for who she is on the inside. Know her past because that’s what made her who she is today, don’t make the same...
What does "Leading Someone On" really...
To be honest, it does nothing but cause pain and distrust with the person who heart got played with in future relationships, It makes them put up barriers around their heart in order to prevent them from being hurt like they did previously, so tell me, why would you do it? It it because you crave attention or is it the fact that you’re too immature to be in a relationship because...
To be honest, I wouldn't mind a long distance... →
trungphan:
Do you know why? Because you can’t control when you fall for someone, whether they’re far or close if what you feel is real and genuine, then I believe two people can make it past the distance, they will find ways to make their relationship work and no matter how far two people are, they will always be in the other person’s heart and mind because that person is the only one that makes...
She's afraid to get attached again.. →
Thing is she’s been hurt so many times. She is scared that if she opens up her heart to another guy then the same thing will happen, she’s afraid that she is just going to be taken advantage of again. She is afraid that you will get bored of her or find someone better, then leave her hurt like she was before. She wants you to put in as much effort as she is putting into the relationship and she...
She's afraid to let anyone get close ... →
trungphan:
Because she’s afraid to get hurt again, she’s scared because you might eventually find someone better and leave her wondering why things went the way they did?, She’s had guys just give up on her and it hurts her deep inside. She doesn’t want to waste her time on someone who’s just going to treat her as an option, someone who won’t put the same amount of effort she’s putting in. In...
She's Tired ...
She’s tired of talking to guys who aren’t going to commit, guys who just play with her heart and emotions as if they are a toy, they make her seem like she’s special and walk away when they get bored of her, as if everything that just took place between them was just a mere mirage. She’s tired of investing her time into someone who doesn’t even make the time or effort...
You know her name, not her story .. →
trungphan:
So, What makes you think that you can judge her? You don’t know what goes through her mind, you don’t see or know what she goes through on a daily basis, some days she may be fine and other day’s she feels like breaking down because of the things she goes through .. don’t just assume her life is fine just because she may smile and laugh. There are nights where her thoughts begin to...
Pay close attention to how she feels
When a girl is feeling something you can see it in her actions, you can tell by her emotions and what she thinks, remember there is always a reason to why she may be feeling the way she does so don’t be so quick to come to conclusions and assume she’s feeling that way for no reason, you know? Take the time to listen to her because it shows her that you care and try to understand why...
He doesn't understand you ... →
trungphan:
That’s what hurts you the most right? When you’re hurting he just pushes your feelings aside like they’re nothing to him, he neglects you and doesn’t even pay attention to how you feel because he’s too busy paying attention to himself, he’s never there for you when you need him even though you’re the one that’s always there for him when he’s feeling down because deep down you know...
Sometimes, she wonders if it's "Worth It" →
trungphan:
She likes you, but she doesn’t want to get her heart broken again, she doesn’t want to put her efforts into someone who will just treat her like an option later on and leave her wondering why things went the way they did, you know? She doesn’t want to invest her time into a guy who’s just going to get bored of her one day and walk away as if what they had was nothing to him. Maybe she...
Thing is.. →
trungphan:
She’s tired of trying. she’s tired of being your option when she knows that she deserves better and at times she wonders why she tries, she cares about you but at the same time it hurts her because she’s putting so much of her time and effort into you only to waste her time, only to be treated like she means nothing to you. Her feelings are conflicted, she doesn’t know whether to walk...
You thought he was different right ladies? →
trungphan:
He fed you the most perfect lines, he told you what you wanted to hear and he made you feel special, but little did you know he was merely playing with your heart, as time progressed he started to put in less effort and eventually you became his “Option” until he found someone new to talk to, he left you heart broken, as your feelings begin to grow his began to fade and now you’re...
April 2012
You don't know that you're beautiful. →
trungphan:
Beauty isn’t what you see on T.v or in the magazines, real beauty to me is a girl who carries herself like a lady, she’s confident and knows what she wants in life. I know that some days you may not see the beauty within yourself butI promise you that it’s there, It just takes the right guy to see it in you, through all of your flaws and imperfections and still love you for who you...
She's so much more then just looks. →
trungphan:
She’s not defined by the cloth she wears or things she has and although she may not be society’s definition of beauty, she is beautiful in her own unique way and sure she may not be perfect, but she will try her best to make you happy when she’s with you, she’ll be the best she can be for you and that’s all that should matter to you, you know? She has a mind filled with so many...
Never give up on something you really want. It’s...
