Sometimes, I just want to get away from everything …
I don’t know, I guess I’m just tired of all the bullshit here, tired of all those two-faced friends who tell you one thing and then go and contradict themselves, I just want to go somewhere new, somewhere I can just think and let all of this stress out and forget about everything, you know? I need to get out of here for awhile, forget about everything, maybe take a vacation, meet new people and just enjoy my time away from all of the constant BS that’s currently going on in my life, I guess …
There are days where she lays in bed at night thinking, trying to not let the emotions consume her, she can’t quite put them into words, but she can finally feel this pain getting to her like a knife being pushed deeper and deeper into an already open wound. Around her peers and family she keeps a smile, but little do they know that it’s simply a mirage, it is what she chooses to show them, but behind close doors she’s an emotional wreck, she tries so hard to hold back the tears, but she can feel drop after drop slowly begin to fall from her eyes, She wants to break loose from this pain, but she doesn’t quite know how, she feels lost at times and even alone maybe. She stands there watching with tears in her eyes as her world slowly starts to crumble beneath her feet, she wishes things could of turned out differently. Now, she lays awake at night contemplating her thoughts until the sun rises, she gets ready and puts on that same fake smile, straightens out her composure and begins her day, even though everyone around her is oblivious to the pain she feels deep inside, oblivious to the thoughts swirling back and forth around in her head. This is the life she lives and what she goes through.
(via trungphan)
Someone who’s willing to put in the time and efforts to get to know her, someone who can see beyond what she looks like and instead see her for who she is as an individual, someone who will listen without casting judgement because they are willing to take the time to listen and understand her past and her present, to see what she has been through and to try to understand why she does certain things and why she thinks the way she does, you know? She wants to know that no matter what she may tell you, you won’t walk away and leave her feeling hurt all over again and even at her lowest point you won’t give up on her, but instead stick with her through it all. But, until then she’ll just bottle up all her emotions and secrets until she can find that one guy that she can trust and won’t judge her decisions no matter what …
This is the most frequent question people tend to ask me. Well, the thing with me is when I fall in “Love” I give it my all, I give that person my time and my effort, but most of all I give them a piece of me I know that they can break (My heart). I want to be able to have a long lasting relationship with them, I want to be able to learn things about them for months or years to come, like the things that make them who they are today or even the small details like their likes/disliked, favorite foods, ect. I want to not only tell, but show them I won’t give up because that’s not the kind of guy I am, through better or worse I’m going to stick by them and be there when they need me. I go into a relationship because I genuinely have feelings for them, not because I want to “Hit it and quit it” the people who only want “sex” from a relationship upsets me because a relationship is about more then that, It”s about being with someone who makes you “Happy” and sharing a love so strong is bonds you two closer. I want to be able to get to know the people they care about like their family and friends because those are the people that have always been there for them just as I will always be. Whether they are mad or sad or if we fight at times, I want them to know that I’m willing to put up with it because they mean “The world” to me, so I would honestly rather lose the argument then lose the one I truly love with all my heart. Lastly, I want for that person to be able to trust me so I will always be honest with and upfront with them, just as they are with me. I want to be able to share my special moments with them and for them to be able to share there’s with me. But, I guess I’m just still waiting until then, I’ll be patient and wait. Maybe they are already part of my life or I have yet to meet them, you know? All I know is when I do find that one “Special girl” to complete the other half of my heart, it will be well worth the wait, So I promise to cherish, love, and adore her with all of my heart. <3
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I’ll be there for you <3
I can’t promise you the perfect relationship, I know that we will mess up here and there, sometimes we will say things out of frustration, but I know that at the end of the day the relationship that we share is worth more then all that, more importantly I know that you’re worth it. If we make mistakes, then we learn from them and move on because those mistakes will help you and I bond more closer together. I got you and you got me, So if you ever feel down then I’ll be there for you, I like seeing you happy so I’ll do anything and everything just to make you smile again. I got your back and you got mines, that’s my greatest plan, I’ll stand by you and support whatever you may pursue because what matters to you truly and honestly matters to me. Remember, I want you to be happy with me, so that’s what I aim to give you and in my eyes you will always be worth it. <3
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She will get tired of waiting, tired of chasing you and putting effort into someone who won’t do the same. By the time you realize how much you wanted her, it will be too late because she got tired of your games and decided to move on to someone who will put in the effort and time to show her that they care, to show her that she is someone truly special, someone to show her that she is beautiful inside and out. If you want her then show her, don’t wait until she moves on to someone else, you know? If she wants you and you want her, then make something happen before you miss your chance.
(via trungphan)
She’s tired of guys messing with her emotions, she’s tired of opening up and getting hurt time and times again. She just wants someone to lover her for who she is, she wants someone to be there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on when she’s feeling down, she wants a guy who will put up with her mood swings because sure she may get mad or sad, truthfully she just wants to know that you will be there for her through the bad and good points of the relationship. She wants something that is long lasting and real, she wants a relationship for the long run, not a guy who’s in the relationship to “Use her” or “Hit it and quit it”. She’s willing to put her all into the relationship, but now she’s just waiting for the right guy to show her that“True love” does truly exist. She’s waiting for that one guy who will treat her right and respect her choices, the guy who will accept her for her flaws and her past regardless of what they may be. Honestly, she’s just waiting.. <3
(via trungphan)
Honestly, I don't really think girls are as complicated as some guys set them up to be. -
I think all a girl really asks for is for you to accept her the way she is, to you she will always be beautiful with or without make-up on, she wants you to be there for her when she needs you the most, she wants to feel your warm embracing hugs when it feels like her world is falling apart, she wants you to be able to respect her decisions and support her with whatever she may pursue in her life, you know? She wants you to see her for who she is as a person, as an individual who just wants to be loved for who she is, you see pass her flaws, pass her imperfections, pass her mistakes and still see a beautiful girl underneath it all because to you she is someone special, you love her and to the world she may be just one person but to you she means the world. But, most of all I think she just wants to spend time with the one she loves because being next to you makes her happy, she wants to be the reason you smile, she wants to make you laugh when you feel like your world is falling apart. Remember she doesn’t want the world, She just wants “You” because you truly make her happy.
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We often set these “Standards” on girls, society tells them that “Beautiful”is “Big boobs, Big butts, Tons of make-up, Ect.”, What ever happened to“Personality” being beautiful, after all isn’t that what keeps you attracted to someone? I mean some of you might disagree with me, go ahead because you’re entitled to your opinion. But, in my opinion you should love her for who is on the inside, the way she is able to make you happy with the simplest gesture like a smile or a hug and not what she looks like on the outside, you know? With or without make-up she should be beautiful in your eyes if you truly and honestly do love her. A girl’s personality shouldn’t be determined by her “Physical Attributes”, But instead by who she is as a person. the way she treats other’s around her and not judged by the cloth she wears or the make-up that she wears. I don’t know, It’s just something that’s been on mind as of lately.
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But you never realized that until it was too late, the words you told her were just lies, you took her for granted and took advantage of her heart, now she’s hurt, she wonders how you could treat her the way you did when all she did was love you? She questions everything you say because all you did was lie to her, you abused her trust and now it’s gone… Your Apologies mean nothing to her now because you say them so often only to hurt her again later on. Now you have nothing, she decided to leave because you treated her wrong and she got tired of the pain, tired of being used, tired of being your option..
(via trungphan)
There are two sides to every girl. -
So in order to fully understand her you must see both sides, sometimes you will see the part of her that’s happy, the side that puts on a smile, but ask yourself is it really a genuine smile? Or Is it merely for show? That’s why you must take the time to understand the other half of her, the side that’s hurting, the part of her that only a trusted few have seen, the part of her that wants someone to take the time to listen to her problems and be there for her, you know? So do just that for her, if you truly cared about her then you would take the time and effort to see both sides of her, like they say there are two sides to every person, you just have to make the effort to understand them. Be that person who shows her that she can trust again because in the past she’s trusted only to be hurt over and over again, once you get that trust don’t do anything stupid to lose it too because once you lose her trust she’ll be less inclined or wary to trust your words or actions next time around.
(via trungphan)
She has talked to guys who have played with her emotions and lead her on, she’s trusted only to have them go and abuse the trust that she gave them, she’s opened up and gotten close to a guy only to have him get bored and leave when he felt like it, to him she was merely an option and it hurt her because she had invested so much time and effort into getting to know this guy, she developed feelings, but in the end that kindness and trust led her to be taken advantage of. This guy said one thing to make her believe he was interested which made her feel like she could finally let down the walls around her heart, but little did she know he was merely playing her for a fool and that his intentions weren’t honest. With that being said, guys when she trusts you and opens up to you then don’t take advantage of that because you don’t even know how hard it was for her to finally let her barriers down and trust you.
(via trungphan)
Ladies, If a guy wants to be with you then he will put in the effort to do so.
If he truly cared enough about you then he will make you his priority, He would put in the time to give you his time because you are someone special to him and he will not make you feel unwanted or neglect you. The moments that he get’s to talk to you or be with you will be cherished because you are the one he wants to be with, you are the girl that constantly crosses his mind day and night, the one that he would drop anything and everything just to talk to you so he can make you laugh and hear your voice. Don’t waste your time on the guy who talks to you only when it is more convenient for him or when he is bored, Don’t let yourself become a victim of his games. I promise you that there are guys out there who will treat you right, give you his time and effort to let you know that you are truly special to him. He will simply let you know and show you that you’re worth it.
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Just take the time and listen to what she has to say ♥ -
Sometimes she just wants you to listen to her, so you can hear her thoughts and learn why she is the way she. She wants you to pay attention to her mind and what she thinks, rather then to how she looks so she can know that you genuinely care about her, so that you see her for who she is on the inside. Know her past because that’s what made her who she is today, don’t make the same mistakes the last guy made to hurt her, don’t be the guy who doesn’t know what’s wrong because he never took the chance to pay attention to her past or thoughts, her thoughts reveal so much about her, like how she feels and how she is as an individual. So, take the time to just listen to her one day, I’m sure that’s what she wants, you know?
(via trungphan)
To be honest, it does nothing but cause pain and distrust with the person who heart got played with in future relationships, It makes them put up barriers around their heart in order to prevent them from being hurt like they did previously, so tell me, why would you do it? It it because you crave attention or is it the fact that you’re too immature to be in a relationship because that’s what I see in people who like to toy around with other people’s feelings as if they are nothing at all. Let me lay a little quote on you “Treat people how you want to be treated” , so how would you feel if someone came along and made you feel special, then walked away as if nothing happened at all?, You would be hurt and in return it would affect how you look at other’s, it would make you become wary of the actions of other’s. So before you decide to play with someone’s heart, stop and think about what you are really doing jerk?